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Alenka Vujkovac, psychotherapy and counselling

Psychotherapy

What is psychotherapy

Healing through conversation. The word comes from ancient Greek and literally means healing of the soul. The definition closest to me is the short and concise one given by its founder, Sigmund Freud.

At its core, psychotherapy is a process in which a person, within the safe framework of a trusting relationship with the therapist, gets to know themselves and looks for the causes of their difficulties and for answers to life's questions and dilemmas. At the same time, it opens up the possibility of personal growth and greater self-awareness.

A lake among trees
Photo: Alenka Vujkovac

So we might choose psychotherapy when we are trying to find solutions to specific emotional and psychological problems, or when we want to get to know ourselves and how we function better. In most cases, the two are closely connected.

How it works

In the safe setting of the therapeutic relationship, built on unconditional acceptance, trust, empathy and respect, client and therapist together – through conversation and storytelling – uncover the feelings and patterns that stand in the way of a fulfilling life and of finding inner peace. In the same way, the client also discovers their own sources of strength and the positive sides of their emotions and experiences, which they can draw on to resolve their dilemmas and difficulties.

What matters most in the therapeutic relationship is that the therapist is always there for us, in the deepest sense of the word. They accept us as we are, with all our negative feelings, thoughts, reactions and actions – including those we may not accept ourselves. In this process, many people feel for the first time that someone truly hears them. All of this makes it easier to face even difficult insights about ourselves, which may hurt but can ultimately lead to change for the better.

Every person is unique, and so every course of psychotherapy is unique too. How long therapy lasts, how intensive it is and what results it brings depends on each individual client. That is why one of the therapist's main tasks is to adapt to the client's personality, difficulties and way of communicating, and to accompany and guide them on the way to a solution like a faithful companion.

It is very important, however, that the person is ready to do something for themselves – that they come to therapy with genuine motivation. Not much can be achieved in therapy under pressure.

How to begin

For those of you who have not been in therapy before, here are a few basic pointers on how things work in practice.

  1. A phone call

    You call and we agree on a time and place for our first meeting. If I can't answer, I will call you back as soon as I can.

  2. First conversation

    This is a chance to get to know each other. It is the moment when the first issues come to light and the broad goals of therapy are set. We also talk about practical questions.

  3. Therapeutic work

    We agree on how often to meet – usually once a week for one therapeutic hour (50 minutes), or more or less often, depending on your needs and goals.

Where next

Who it is for

The kinds of distress psychotherapy can help with, and when is the right time for it.

Logotherapy

The approach I specialised in, and how it shapes my work.